Daryll Rowe arrives at Lewes Crown Court, where he is charged with infecting four men with HIV and attempting to infect a further six
A man has spoken in court about the sickening moment a hairdresser he was trying to break up with told him he was HIV positive, saying ‘I have HIV LOL. Oops!’
Daryll Rowe, 26, is accused of demanding unprotected sex with four partners, claiming to be free of the virus, or of tampering with the condom when they insisted he used one, and infecting them with HIV.
One of his alleged victims tried to end their fling after he became violent towards him, only to receive a string of spiteful messages, the court heard.
The jury at Lewes Crown Court heard the victim sent a series of text messages to Rowe telling him he did not want to start a relationship, writing: ‘I’d like to maybe be friends. I don’t think I am ready for a relationship at the moment.’
When he refused to meet Rowe again, he received a several abusive text messages, including one saying: ‘You’ve got an ugly weird face.’
Rowe allegedly later replied telling the victim he had ejaculated inside him during sex and was HIV positive.
He text him saying: ‘Maybe you have the fever. I came inside you and I have HIV LOL. Oops!’
The jury was told that several weeks after the pair had sex the alleged victim began to feel unwell.
He said: ‘First of all I had really swollen glands in my neck like golf balls. Shivery. Hot and cold at night. Couldn’t eat. Couldn’t walk. I was just really ill.
Rowe (pictured), who is originally from Edinburgh, is charged with infecting four men with the virus and of attempting to infect a further six between October 2015 and December 2016
‘I thought maybe I caught glandular fever from him.’
When a test for glandular fever came back negative he went for a HIV test and was at work when a nurse phoned him and told him he was HIV positive.
He told the court: ‘I couldn’t believe it really. He’s obviously f***ed up in the head.’
The alleged victim was diagnosed as positive in January 2016.
Rowe, who is originally from Edinburgh, is charged with infecting four men with the virus and of attempting to infect a further six between October 2015 and December 2016.
He was living and working in the Brighton area at the time of the first eight alleged offences, before fleeing to the North East while he was under investigation, where he allegedly tried to infect two more men.
Rowe was living and working in the Brighton area at the time of the first eight alleged offences, before fleeing to the North East
Rowe met the complainant on gay dating app Grindr in October 2015, telling him he had only just moved to the Brighton area and did not know anyone.
Describing their first sexual encounter in a car, the alleged victim said he was frightened of Rowe but believed him when he said he was free of the virus.
In his taped police interview, the man said: ‘He asked for sex and I gave him oral sex. He asked for more and I said no and he started to get angry.
‘He wasn’t threatening to punch me, he wasn’t huffing and puffing, but he was saying: “You need to if we’re going to be together, I need someone who’s spontaneous.”
‘I was saying: ‘I don’t really want to do it. It’s horrible to do it in a car in the middle of nowhere. It was horrible really – I just felt like I had to do it.’
He later agreed to unprotected anal sex, but the two men stopped when a cyclist rode past the car. When the complainant refused to continue, Rowe told him: ‘You’ve wasted my evening, I can’t believe this. You’re wasting my time.’
Rowe had been diagnosed with HIV while he was still living in Edinburgh in April 2015 after a sexual health clinic contacted him to tell him a former partner was infected
Rowe refused to get out of the car when the complainant drove him home, and instead tried to bully him into having sex behind some bins, the court heard.
‘It felt like an hour with him just going on and on. I felt very vulnerable. I didn’t know anyone around (that area),’ he said.
He said he believed Rowe was about to attack him: ‘I was thinking this is all going to happen and I’m going to have to go to work tomorrow and explain a black eye.
‘He was telling me: ‘This would all be over if you had just done it when I said and we had just carried on.”
The complainant said he managed to get out of the situation by promising to meet Rowe a few days later.
‘Then he did get out of the car and I cried all the way home,’ he said.
He said he was not initially concerned about the risk of HIV as Rowe had promised he was clear, ‘seemed’ healthy, and they had intercourse for only a few minutes.
The complainant had a negative HIV test just days before having sex with Rowe, and had no other partners in between.
Rowe (pictured) refused to get out of the car when the complainant drove him home, and instead tried to bully him into having sex behind some bins, the court heard
Under cross examination, Felicity Gerry QC, asked the victim if he thought Grindr was primarily used for gay men to hook up for sex. He replied: ‘No. That’s not how I used it.’
He agreed that within 24 hours of contacting each other on the dating app he drove over to meet him and ‘kissed and cuddled’ Rowe after a walk in a park but it had not gone any further.
Later that week the pair met again and drove to a secluded spot near a park where they kissed in the car. They then had sex in a car for ‘about 30 seconds’ but stopped when the alleged victim said he didn’t want to continue.
Rowe had been diagnosed with HIV while he was still living in Edinburgh in April 2015 after a sexual health clinic contacted him to tell him a former partner was infected.
Doctors found he was ‘coping well’ with his diagnosis but were concerned when he refused vaccination for common illnesses HIV positive patients are susceptible to, such as pneumonia.
They were also worried when he refused antiretroviral drugs to slow the development of the virus and make him less contagious, jurors heard.
The court heard that the four men Rowe is accused of infecting with HIV all had very similar strains to the one Rowe was infected with, making it highly likely that he was the source of the virus.
The trial continues.